Prof.JIGYASI DK SAGEian

  LISTEN FOR LOVE By Prof Dileep Jigyasi There are times when we timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person or ourselves., we hesitate to say the actual words “I Love You”. So, we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say ‘take care’ or ‘don’t drive too fast’ or ‘be good’. But really these are just other words of saying “I Love You”, ‘You are important to me’, ‘I care what happened to you’, ‘I don’t want you to get hurt ‘We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing we should say, is the one thing we don’t say. And yet because the feeling is so real, and the need to say is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times, the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted. Therefore, we have to listen in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessa...